Good Touch/ Bad Touch
'A nine-year-old child use to live with the grandmother. Both the parents were working, and the grandmother was pretty old. By old I mean that she wasn't active and had a problem with walking around much. So she was a caregiver who falls in the category of disabled. This child was an independent and happy child. There was a twenty year old boy, and he used to stay in the same locality, who knew the child but never had been to the place. They lived in the chawl kind of set up were everyone knew everyone. So one day he comes and visits the grandmother. He talks to her, tells her that he stays here. Gives food to the grandmother, makes a connection. Mostly these kinds of connections are made through food.
'I rarely do intercourse ... I guess the positions that feel good are the ones where I'm being comfortably stimulated or am comfortably stimulating someone else. I love lying on my side kissing and hugging my lover - my left side is best to lie on so I can use my long right arm to touch them. I like sitting up and touching someone, but find it virtually impossible to sit or someone's face or torso without crushing them to death because of my short right leg. Some positions are definitely more comfortable than others. I rarely lie or climb on top of someone because I really can't support my own weight because of my disabilities.